My daughter
No, I don’t have a daughter..
but sometimes, when I do have a daughter and she is reaching 18, I wonder what would I tell her. Would I be a stubborn daddy and insist on her doing the things I want? Or would I be a dad who would go tattoo with her if she wants one.
Does my advices to her sounds like I am nagging? I don’t know, till I get a daughter.
Recently, most of my females friends are having problems with their life. They have been telling me what was the problem with their life. Its usually the same thing that most of the people might face, such as relationship, lack of relationship, jobs and friends.
Good friend I is casually dating a guy who fits her criteria for a husband. Its just the 2nd date, but she is having butterflies in her stomach. She is afraid that she might disappoint the current guy that she is seeing. I am listening by the sideline and just giving advices to her. I think she should try it out with the new guy and see how it goes since the current relationship is just starting too, no commitment kind.
Another friend is having problem at job and the relationship. She doesn’t know whether she should talk to her supervisor about her problem. All I can say is to ask her to solve the problem one by one, not altogether.
These are just some of the problems they face, well there are more.. I am not complaining that how come I have to solve their problems, but if they want to tell me and I am alright, I am free to listen.
Would I be saying the same thing to my daughter if she faces these problem too? Would she tell me just like my friends did?
Now, why do I say I want a daughter, instead of a son. Well, for one, I think the daughter would love their daddy more.. 
Update: On the afternoon I wrote this, it suddenly came to me that Jackie Cheung wrote a book dedicated to his daughter too. In the book, he wrote about how he wishes to see her grow up and basically be there to provide her with the everything that he can. I don’t think this inspired this post though.
Your “maternity” instinct kicking in? Or you planning one on the way? Make sure not born this year ok… Else ah… Alot of words to scold her with… Kekekeke…
traitor
i want a son or two. hehe.
You can set up helpdesk. You give advice to male problems or not?
i would want a son.
i cant imagine a daughter who is like me
does that mean a son would love their mother more?
i prefer girls simply because they are like angels
i prefer girls because they would grow up like me.
if they choose to be like their daddy how?
Yes, I would like a daughter too, the world needs more hairy women…..
ehh, having a son is better as you can go to bed earlier. While having a daughter is not so bad, you may end up being like my dad who waits up for me till whatever time i come back.
Remember the time we went to Devils/SHITTY bar?
Am not too fussed. Just know that I want kids
daughters are good cos you can dress them up in lovely dresses.
Heh … I know a few boys who kena dress in lovely dresses as kids by their moms.
Lancerlord: Male problem easier to solve than females one.. Males tend to be able to let go more easily.
onelittletwit: not really, but the possibility is there.
miche: be like daddy how?
cherub: thats true, its also like a retribution, eh?
FF/aMuse: heh.. luckily I wasn’t like that..
Take note that most parents don’t have a clue of their kids lives.
Daughters tend to be more closer to the parents’ heart and will do touching things..
But that’s only half true for me.. haha.. my parents will be glad if i dont provoke them.. :p
girls clothing VERY expensive lar.
Haha.. Miche, u must have bought ur daughter a lot of clothes :p
But daughters are really sweethearts.. if i ever get married, i want a daughter too..
ya. lots of it. boys clothes.
Haha.. :p
Are you smoking something? You are getting wacky.
I think having a older son and a younger daughter would be alright. That way her brother can help look out for her too.
I can’t wait to have my own kids. Now now now!!!!
But I will have so much worries if I have a daughter.
One thing for sure, I don’t want her to end up like me muhahahaha
I second zen|th’s tots.
pssst.. paternal clock ringing beri loud ah ?
Zen|th is right.. look how well i had turned out into under my bro’s care.. just a bit irresponsible, a bit lazy, a bit of a spender, etc etc
hey, gals. are you all mentally prepared to go thru childbirth? very painful know!
no.
i dont wanna ever give birth. ugly stretch marks. figure all screwed.
and its one darn big responsibility other than the pain.
i dont mind having god children of my friends’ kids. but no way will i have my own. i dont think i can handle it.
die mandrake, i am high.
drank so much at Gotham.