What Women Wants
What does women wants? This question has probably been bugging men for the longest time. I think the “wants” varies from different things to different things according to different times.
It could be finance stability or some other stuff. But now that women are almost on the same salary scale as guys, I guess the wants proceed from the tangible stuff to the intangible stuff.
So what actually does women wants?
A conversation with a few ladies this evening can be summerized into two things, confidence in a guy and the ability to communicate with each other.
No doubt the guy has to be at least pleasent looking (this is subjective), but he does not need to possess a cute face or be handsome looking (this is an advantage) . But what they agreed upon is that the guys must have the two qualities above.
Confidence, as one of the ladies puts it, is not limited to the ability to look into the person’s eyes when you are talking to them. Its also not to act shifty and avoid eye contact altogether. The avoidance of having eye contacts can put some ladies off altogether.
The ability to communicate with each another plays a big role with these ladies. To them, without communication, its as good as talking to a wall. No matter how handsome or cute the guy is, if you can’t talk on the same level as the other person, whats the point? I think a relationship based on eye candy can only last that long.
What other qualities does other women look for in a guy?
Size, I have been told matters to some.
Care, concern and knowing that i am their heaven and their comfort. They breathe for me. Heh, a bit hard to find hor.
i want him to understand and accept me for who i am FULL STOP
Security? Gals tend to look for guys who are able to provide them the security that they need.
accept the person for who she is and be truthful
Cute look.. That definitely comes first!
Loads and loads of $$$. Bfs drive posh, live in palaces and own chains of hotels in Korean dramas. Can’t survive on
Romantic. Korean dramas…learn from them.
Full of surprises. Learn from Korean drama also.
Be (or pretend) like an idiot. Bfs are supposed to be the punching bags for boxer gfs. Got one Korean movie on this one also.
… and all of those listed above.. of course.
…cant survive on fast food and beer nowadays.. dine in style with red wine yo..
If i need to communicate or look into someone’s eyes when we’re talking, i can do so with friends or with my dog. What I want from a guy is a man slave, someone who does whatever I ask him to and who says “yes dear” to everything I say. Ho ho ho.
QUALITY TIME
Give me my biatch!
IF the guy with loads of cash and other luxuries but cannot share his heart with you is USELESS!
For me, it is going to be he must be able to accept for who I am, let me be ME. Knows when to be there for me and yet leave me alone when I need to.
Chemistry? I know, I’m the least qualified one to speak out here, considering what I have been brewing lately. =p
SINCERITY!!!!!! Most important!!!!!!
i want a manslave! hahah!
one who can take me for who i am. good enough. i am very manly and chor lor.
Ok.. more into the list.. ontop of having loads of cash, he must be able to share the heart, accepting, have the sixth sense to tell when he’s needed and when he’s suppose to disappear..
…also must be a manslave…who says “yes dear” to everything…
…with chemistry…
It’s interesting topic Mandrake.. you should compile the list and come out with “An Idiot’s Guide to WWW”
women want everything lah.
I think confidence and communication are universal traits for both men and women. However, I tend to believe that more men value physical traits than women, hence you see a lot of women more willing to go out with a fugly man, than a man with a fugly woman.